Relationships Matter
Relationships Matter – 7 minute Briefing
Parental conflict, including parents who are together or separated, which is frequent, intense and poorly resolved, puts children’s mental health and long-term life chances at risk.
The Reducing Parental Conflict Programme (RPC), or ‘Relationships Matter’ provides four funded pathways of intervention that are FREE and which referrals to them can be made up until 16 March 2022. These programmes have been proven to improve family stability and improve outcomes for children, including:
- Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT) – Parenting Under Pressure
- Incredible Years Advanced
- Parents Plus – Parenting When Separated
- Family Check-Up
Reducing Parental Conflict Training is available for ALL practitioners working with families. This is a full day’s training split over 2 half days currently ran virtually on TEAMS. Staff Briefing Sessions are also available however these are most appropriate for supervisors/managers to help raise awareness of the RPC agenda. For course content and how to book please go to Stronger Families Training at the following link http://www.countydurhamfamilies.info/kb5/durham/fsd/advice.page?id=Z8S_XRfIwCI
RPC Practitioner Leaflet [156.9KB] provides full details of eligibility and programme content.
Information for parents. [146.88KB]
Durham also has a ‘Relationships Matter’ public facing website that practitioners can support parent/carers, children and young people to access. Ideally a practitioner should talk through the content of the website with them and then parent/carers, children and young people can access independently. There are a range of self-help tools, information, advice and guidance, Getting On Better Cards, virtual chat room and links to more specific support. The website also hosts One Plus One’s evidence based Digital Tools which allow parents to complete on-line courses in their own time – this could be an agreed action/intervention in their Child and Family Plan! There are two ways in which you can access the online course content:
The link below is where a practitioner would register and sign in to access the ‘Practitioner Guides’ and be able to see the content of the online courses.
https://www.oneplusone.org.uk/practitioner-guides-england/introduction
OR
Parent/Carers can register and sign into the courses, which they can do on their own without a practitioner at http://durham.opo.org.uk
Briefing Note for Practitioners – Reducing Parental Conflict
The following video links are for parents and practitioners alike, with the exception of the final one which is aimed solely at practitioners. Practitioners may find it helpful to share them with parents when they are explaining referrals to the programme and to give them a sense of what to expect and how the specialist interventions work:
The Relationships Matter Programme: https://youtu.be/WFwJi_k0hcQ
The Incredible Years: https://youtu.be/eyk6Qza1Row
Family Check Up: https://youtu.be/yqQ9Eoho2DY
Parenting When Separated: https://youtu.be/VIssxegcUxc
MBT: Parenting Under Pressure: https://youtu.be/n76wyKRFu_g
Further information for Practitioners ONLY: Using the Relationships Matter Services: https://youtu.be/KDmKDMJoCC4
The programme is open for referrals from professionals working with families in the following areas;
- Durham
- Gateshead
- Newcastle upon Tyne
- Sunderland
- Northumberland
- South Tyneside
- Stockton on Tees
- Hartlepool
- Middlesbrough
- Redcar and Cleveland
Making a referral
The Referral Stage Questionnaire (RSQ) is not just a form, it is a tool for practitioners to facilitate a discussion with both parents about their relationship. The RSQ has been described by parents as the first time that they have been asked about their relationship. The RSQ has been rigorously tested and researched, every question is there for a reason.
We need an RSQ for each parent, along with the Participation Agreement signed by you (as link worker) and the parents. Scan all four documents and email to rpcgateway@gateshead.gov.uk
NB Professionals do not require training to support parents in completing the RSQs although advantageous. Get advice and support by calling the Referral Gateway Team for a pre-referral discussion Monday – Friday, 9am-5pm on 0191 433 3355.
RSQ Expecting Together [922.46KB]
RSQ Expecting Separated [725.21KB]
RSQ Participation Agreement [46.62KB]
Involving both parents
The Relationships Matter programme is aiming to achieve a culture change across services working with families. We want to ensure that both parents are listened to and heard. Research suggests if only one parent is engaged, the other parent feels less involved and the intervention will be less effective.
Unstable relationships are not domestic abuse
The Relationships Matter Programme does not work with those in abusive relationships. The programme is for parents who are together or separated where there is not an imbalance of power, neither parent is fearful of the other and there are no specialist domestic abuse services working with the family. Workers should be clear about how to access local domestic abuse services and when to seek management oversight of this decision.
Timescales
From receiving your referral, the Referral Gateway has two working days to process the referral to Relate. Relate can take up to 10 working days to arrange an initial home visit and a further five working days to provide a start date. In total, from receiving a referral from you, to a start date being allocated, the timescale is 17 working days.
Free provision
The programme is free and fully-funded, including childcare, travel up to 90 minutes and interpretation costs.
No impact on benefits
Although the Relationships Matter Programme is funded by the DWP, the programme sits within the national Reducing Parental Conflict Programme. It’s supported by a range of government departments. The programme does not impact on people’s benefits.
The programme is open to all parents, working and non-working.
Professional referrals only
A referral needs to be completed/supported by a frontline practitioner working alongside the family. If you have any questions, please contact the Referral Gateway on 0191 433 3355.
Cases about to close
The programme should not be used as an ‘instead of’ intervention to enable case closure by a frontline worker. We would still require details of a practitioner from a universal service such as school, health visiting or nursery, to offer local support should a safeguarding issue arise and to ensure a (good practice) smooth hand-over to a service the family are familiar with.
Promoting attendance
Frontline staff do not need to attend sessions with parents but we do ask that you attend an initial home visit with our family support staff and do whatever practicable to promote and support attendance.
Feedback on progress
Relate or Changing Futures North East will only provide information on attendance and engagement. Clinical feedback cannot be provided.
Eligibility
Parents, carers, those with a Special Guardianship Order (SGO), foster carers, adoptive parents, step-parents and grandparents. We do not accept referrals for intergenerational conflict, such as between a parent and grandparent. A parent of any age, including those aged under 18 years, can be referred into the Relationships Matter Programme.
Further information